Coaching – buzz word, latest fad, more to whip middle managers with, or, an exceptional way of creating results?
Take your pick; I know where I stood when faced with my manger telling me to go on a coaching course. Why me, I don’t need it, in fact you need it more than me, look at the sales team, the competition, the marketplace. There are reasons for the shortfall in sales & coaching is not going to change those factors.
Does this sound familiar?
Yet when we look at the sporting world, the better the athlete is, the more coaches he needs. Tiger Woods, arguably the best golfer in the world has a coach, Linford Christie, Andre Agassi, all attribute their success to their coach.
Their coaches cannot, and would not attempt to be better. They see the performance from the outside, offering insight and developing self-belief.
In business, the majority have the idea that the higher the position the less input they need. Decisions are made by virtue of experience and expertise. The reality is that the game ahead is different from yesterday, and yesterdays’ formula may not work tomorrow. Also, just because it worked for the MD, it may not necessarily work for the sales manager.
I have spent 15 years within the Pharma/ Medical devices industry and can honestly say there has only been one manager who I would have walked over hot coals for. Can you remember having a boss that inspired you, who you would do anything for? No? Maybe a teacher then? How did they do it, how did they make you feel?
The common themes that I hear are, “trusted me”, “believed in me”, “gave me confidence”. They did not call at 1800 enquiring how much you had sold, what leads had been generated, had you followed up on the leads from last week. What they actually did was to guide, encourage, listen, understand, and support. Obviously, direction was given, the sales target is X thousands, but the how was left to you. The how was discussed, options were considered but you chose the path that would take you to the target. The responsibility was yours, but the support and help was always there.
When you are told what to do, you are following instructions. If the strategy fails it wasn’t your plan, therefore not your responsibility. The end result belongs to your line manger. However, if you have determined the pathway, the outcome belongs to you. This is the essence of coaching, being able to allow a person to take responsibility within the confines of an open, trusting environment.
“ Tiger Woods, arguably the best golfer in the world has a coach, Linford Christie, Andre Agassi, all attribute their success to their coach”
The problem is, that most managers think they are coaching now. Of course they use the GROW model, which was the theoretical knowledge gained at a coaching course attended years ago.
GROW stands for:
G Goal
R Realism (Situation)
O Options
W Will
This is translated into:
G This is your goal
R This is your reality
O These are your options
W This is what you will do
So we are back to telling mode.
The essence of coaching is to allow the coachee to find his own solutions, so they belong to him and are his responsibility. However, if the foundations of a trusting partnership are not in place, the coachee will believe that the buck has been tied firmly around his neck and will rapidly sink. Coaching is about giving people the tools for them to happily and confidently make their own decisions.
This applies throughout the company. Too often it is the middle managers who incorporate a coaching style, only to be managed themselves by a tell strategist. The whole organisation has to adopt a true coaching culture, otherwise resentment breeds. In my situation, I was told I had to do a coaching course for no other reason than we all had to do it. So, I was really enthusiastic for the three days and sat with my shoulders to my ears, troll-like, thinking that my boss should be on the course. Of course I did need to learn how to coach effectively, but I should have been able to arrive at that conclusion myself, to be a willing participant as opposed to an indignant one.
A truly coaching led company is the company that most employees enjoy working for, and people want to work for.
Remember that brilliant boss, look to his skills and I think you will realise he was an excellent coach.
Margaret Potter works for MTR International Ltd.
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